I've been thinking about both the past year and the past decade. Ten years ago I was finally making transition progress, after 15 years of fighting therapists and getting nowhere, but it was glacially slow. I wondered if the physicians were going to let me get anywhere before I was 50. I was working for … Continue reading Happy new year. →

Today is a day of confused emotions. It was to be my 20th wedding anniversary. We divorced a few years ago and I know that was for the best. Still, making it to 20 years of marriage was something important to me and now that will never happen. "Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't. Maybe … Continue reading Milestones →